Midwife and Life – Creating a Healing Home Environment

We spend a large portion of our lives at home, especially in a post-pandemic world. Studies show that our surroundings play a direct role in shaping our emotions, thoughts, and even behavior.

According to a 2021 study published in Frontiers in Psychology, cluttered or overstimulating environments are strongly linked to stress, decreased focus, and anxiety disorders (Rafaeli & Vilnai-Yavetz, 2004). On the other hand, warm, organized, and calm spaces are associated with improved mood and a stronger sense of control.

Your home doesn’t have to be perfect. It just needs to reflect calmness, safety, and comfort—qualities that support healing and peace.

Clutter isn’t just physical—it’s emotional too. A messy environment can increase cortisol (the stress hormone) and overwhelm the brain’s ability to process new information.

• Start small. Tidy one drawer or one shelf per day.
• Ask, “Does this item support my peace?” If not, let it go.
• Use baskets or boxes to reduce visual chaos.
• Keep flat surfaces as clear as possible.

Research insight: A study from UCLA’s Center on Everyday Lives of Families found that women who described their homes as “cluttered” had higher cortisol levels and reported greater daily fatigue (Saxbe & Repetti, 2010).

Nature has a calming effect on the nervous system. Indoor plants, natural light, and earthy textures can help create a healing atmosphere.

• Add houseplants like peace lilies, snake plants, or pothos.
• Open windows daily to let in sunlight and fresh air.
• Use wooden or bamboo décor to create earthy textures.
• Display stones, shells, or dried flowers from nature walks.

Quick fact: Exposure to nature— even a view of greenery—has been linked to reduced anxiety and improved attention span (Berman et al., 2012).

Colors affect mood. Soft, muted tones can relax the mind, while bright reds and oranges may feel stimulating.

• Blue: Calming, helps reduce anxiety
• Green: Balancing, connected to nature
• Soft beige or gray: Neutral and soothing
• Lavender: Gently calming and nurturing

Use these colors in wall paint, throw pillows, or art prints. You don’t need to repaint your whole home—small accents can make a big difference.

Our sense of smell connects directly to the brain’s emotional center. This makes scent one of the fastest ways to shift mood and energy.

• Lavender: Lowers heart rate and helps with sleep
• Chamomile: Soothes anxiety
• Cedarwood or sandalwood: Grounding and earthy
• Lemon or orange: Brightens mood

You can use essential oil diffusers, candles (choose non-toxic soy-based ones), or even simmer citrus peels and herbs on the stove for a natural scent.

You don’t need an entire room to build a healing space. Even a small corner can work wonders if it’s created with care.

• A reading nook with soft lighting
• A yoga or meditation mat with a journal nearby
• A space by a window with a plant and calming artwork

Let this corner be a no-tech, no-distraction zone. A place where you go to reset, reflect, or just breathe.

Lighting plays a huge role in how a room feels. Harsh overhead lights can overstimulate, while soft lighting invites relaxation.

• Use warm, dimmable lights in the evening.
• Light candles during reflection time or journaling.
• Avoid blue light from screens before bed—opt for warm-toned lamps instead.

Bonus tip: Try salt lamps or Himalayan crystal lamps for a soft glow and negative ion generation.

Sound is often overlooked when designing a healing home, but it’s powerful. Studies show that calm sounds can slow heart rate, reduce stress, and promote focus.

• Soft instrumental or classical music in the background
• Nature sounds like ocean waves, rain, or birds
• Silence in busy parts of the day to reduce overstimulation
• Wind chimes near a window for gentle movement-based tones

Healing spaces should feel personal. Fill your home with objects that tell your story and bring joy.

• Photos of loved ones or happy memories
• Art that reflects your journey or emotions
• Quotes that inspire healing and hope
• Crystals, affirmations, or spiritual symbols that resonate with you

When your space reflects your soul, it starts to feel like a sanctuary.

Too much screen time—especially from phones, TVs, or computers—can lead to anxiety, poor sleep, and emotional fatigue.

• Keep the bedroom screen-free if possible.
• Use “do not disturb” mode in healing spaces.
• Create a habit of digital detox after 8 pm.

Set healthy screen boundaries so your mind can rest and your home can feel like a retreat—not just a Wi-Fi zone.

You don’t need to change everything overnight. Start with one area—maybe a cluttered corner or a room that feels heavy. Add one healing element at a time: a plant, a soft light, a calming scent.

Your home doesn’t need to look like a magazine spread. It only needs to feel safe, calming, and true to you. Over time, with intention and care, it will become your quiet partner in healing—a place that not only shelters you but helps you thrive.

• Saxbe, D., & Repetti, R. (2010). No place like home: Home tours correlate with daily patterns of mood and cortisol. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 36(1), 71–81.
• Berman, M. G., et al. (2012). Interacting with nature improves cognition and affect for individuals with depression. Journal of Affective Disorders, 140(3), 300–305.
• Rafaeli, A., & Vilnai-Yavetz, I. (2004). Emotion as a connection of physical and social space in work environments. Journal of Organizational Behavior, 25(2), 239–257.

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