We’ve all heard the saying: “It was just an accident.” Sometimes accidents are just, well, accidents. Children do trip over their own feet. Parents do drop things when they’re in a rush. Life’s full of minor mishaps.
But what about the accidents that aren’t so small, or one of those things, or so simple?
For instance, what about a wet supermarket floor with no warning sign? Or loose paving stones outside the school gates.
What about when a toddler takes a tumble at soft play because the equipment wasn’t fixed properly? These moments are often brushed off, too, but they raise a fair question:
“When is an accident just that – an accident and when is someone else responsible?”
The difference often lies in one word: preventable.
Some incidents are unavoidable – no one’s to blame. However, others occur because someone failed to do what they should have done. That might be a shop failing to clear up a spill, a local authority ignoring repeated reports about a broken step, or a venue overlooking basic safety checks.
Responsibility doesn’t always mean blame, but it can mean that someone had a duty to keep a space safe and failed to do so. In other words, the ensuing accident was preventable.
Most parents don’t want to make a fuss. We’re used to dealing with cuts, bruises and bumps without any drama. But when something more serious happens – especially to a child – brushing it aside, as one of those things, isn’t always the right thing to do.
Asking questions is reasonable. So is expecting answers. If a fall could’ve been avoided with better maintenance, suitable warnings, or proper supervision, it’s okay to say so.
When the dust settles and you’re left wondering if an incident could have been prevented, taking these steps can help:
- Make a note of what happened: where, when, and how.
- Take photos, if possible, of the spot where it happened, any hazards, and warning signs (or lack of them).
- Speak up: If you’re in a public place or business, let someone know. Request that the incident be logged in the accident book.
- Trust your instincts: If you’re not happy with how something’s been handled, say so.
You’re not being difficult – you’re being diligent.
This isn’t just about one fall or one bump on the head. It’s about maintaining standards. When we tolerate unsafe conditions by allowing standards to slide, more people will get hurt. Highlighting a problem helps protect others – and may even help prevent the same type of incident from happening again.
Sometimes, the effects of an accident go beyond the physical. A parent who’s had a bad fall while out with the kids might lose confidence. A child hurt in a public place can carry anxiety for weeks. These knock-on effects are real, and they deserve to be taken seriously.
If something’s happened and you’re not sure what to do next, you don’t have to sort it out on your own. A quick chat with someone who’s paid to know the ropes can take the weight off your mind.
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Not every accident needs to be followed up, formally. But if something preventable causes you or a loved one harm, it’s only right to want answers and, if necessary, for the wrong to be put right.
It’s not about finding someone to blame – it’s about people taking care when they should. If they don’t, and someone else suffers as a result, they ought to be held to account.
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