How Reality TV Like Love Island Impacts Bod…

Let’s be honest: Reality television has become America’s not-so-secret obsession. Whether it’s your guilty pleasure after a long day, the background noise while you’re scrolling your phone, or something you swear you’d never watch (but somehow know all the contestants’ names), there’s no denying we’re consuming more reality TV than ever before.

From the drama-filled villas of Love Island to the backstabbing brilliance of The Traitors, from the soaring vocals on The Voice to the rose ceremonies on The Bachelor — these shows have us hooked, and they’re undeniably entertaining. Still, researchers and mental health professionals are increasingly worried about the impact this “harmless” entertainment might be doing to our mental health, especially as it relates to body image.

If you’ve ever felt a knot in your stomach after watching impossibly perfect people find love on a tropical island or noticed your mood dip after a reality TV binge, you’re not alone. These shows are messing with our minds in ways we’re only beginning to understand, and the impact on how we see ourselves, especially our bodies, is becoming impossible to ignore.

Take Love Island USA, for instance. This longtime fan favorite has been called out for years over its harmful body image messaging, yet the most recent season (which premiered June 3rd, 2025) serves up more of the same. It might be your go-to guilty pleasure, but it’s worth asking: What’s the real cost of the “Love Island Effect” on our mental health?

Below is a deeper dive into the show’s impact on our mental health — from the show’s impossible beauty standards to the direct psychological toll it takes on us — plus some practical ways to enjoy your reality TV fix without letting it mess with your self-worth.

 

Negative Body Image and Mental Health: Understanding the Connection

When it comes to what shapes your mental health, body image plays a bigger role than you may realize. The way you see yourself in the mirror isn’t just about vanity: it’s deeply connected to your overall well-being and self-worth. When those thoughts are persistently negative, your mind can suffer.

Poor body image can trigger or worsen a number of conditions or symptoms: 

• Anxiety and depression 
• Body dysmorphia 
• Eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia 
• Feelings of shame and guilt 
• Self-esteem 
• An unhealthy obsession with body type

Learning how body image affects mental health isn’t just important: it’s essential if you want to take care of yourself, feel better in your own skin, and help others do the same. There are four components to body image you should know: what you see when you look at yourself (perceptual), how that makes you feel (affective), what you think about it (cognitive), and what you do as a result (behavioral).

Here’s the kicker: Reality TV and social media can mess with any or all of these layers, creating a perfect storm for mental health struggles.

The good news? If you’re battling negative body image, you don’t have to go it alone. Therapy professionals are specially trained to help you spot reality TV’s toxic influence and flip the script on how you see yourself. They can even coach you through tough conversations about body image with friends and family, helping curate a more positive message to the people you care about.

Read More: Wondering How to Talk to Your Child About Their Body? Start Here 

 

The Popularity of Reality TV

Despite all the hand-wringing about reality TV’s impact on our mental health, we’re watching more of it than ever. In fact, reality shows now make up a staggering 57% of all available TV programming. The message is crystal clear — reality TV isn’t just a guilty pleasure anymore: It’s become part of our daily media diet.

How Reality TV Impacts Body Image

You’ve probably encountered at least one of the Love Island franchises, whether it’s the UK, Australia, France, Germany, or USA version. Yet, what stays consistent across every beach and villa is the show’s basic formula of putting conventionally attractive twenty-somethings in swimwear and watching them compete for love — and the troubling impact it has on how we see ourselves.

The numbers are pretty sobering. New research from the Mental Health Foundation reveals that nearly 25% of 18-to-24-year-olds say reality TV makes them worry about their body image. The newest debut of Love Island USA, season 7, exacerbates this widespread concern. The cast is another lineup of people who fit that narrow definition of “beach body ready” and have likely had cosmetic work done.  Love Island is certainly not alone in promoting unhealthy body standards, but researchers are particularly worried about the show’s so-called “Love Island Effect”: when viewers don’t just watch the show but also start questioning their own appearance and considering cosmetic procedures.

Despite the show’s lack of body diversity and some franchise changes, like offering mental health support for contestants after the show, Love Island USA celebrates the same, negative idea about body image: that true physical beauty does not include plus-sized bodies and only celebrates those with toned physiques and cosmetic enhancements.

Understanding how your TV habits affect your mental health is just the beginning. Actually building a positive body image, though, is the real work. Learn some concrete steps you can take to reset your perspective and find the support you need to feel good in your own skin.

 

How to Develop a Positive Body Image

As you grab the remote this week to turn on your favorite reality TV show, stop yourself and remember this key fact: the people you see on TV both represent skewed body ideals and likely struggle with body image issues themselves. 

While GoodTherapy’s expert therapists are ready to help you tackle any body image challenges head-on, you can start protecting your mental health right now with these three game-changing strategies:

1. Set Boundaries: Think of boundaries as your personal protection measures — whether physical, mental, or emotional. They’re your first line of defense in protecting your peace of mind.
2. Fight Back With Cognitive Dissonance: Recognize and combat toxic beauty standards. See something unrealistic? Call it out. Challenge it verbally or take action against it.
3. Remember the Ultimate Goal: Self-love isn’t one-size-fits-all. What works for your best friend might not work for you, and that’s okay. The freedom that comes with genuine self-acceptance? That’s universal.

These are the big-picture strategies, but let’s get practical. Here are some small but mighty actions that can transform how you see yourself:

• Start your day with positive affirmations (yes, they actually work) 
• Chase health, not a number on the scale 
• Spread compliments freely to others and yourself 
• Make a list of what you love about yourself (and read it often) 
• Catch yourself comparing and shut it down 
• Notice when your inner critic gets loud and stop it in its tracks 
• Remember you’re more than just a body: you’re a whole person

Fighting back against TV’s toxic body standards doesn’t mean you have to give up Bachelor in Paradise or stop rooting for your favorite Survivor contestant. It just means watching with your eyes wide open and recognizing your triggers so you can practice foundational skills in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). When you notice yourself making comparisons while watching Love Island, that awareness itself is the first step toward change.

Read More: Want to Learn About the Importance of CBT? Start Learning Now

 

How You Can Watch Love Island and Protect Your Mental Health 

You don’t have to navigate this mental health journey solo. GoodTherapy’s trained professionals understand how reality TV affects mental health. They’re equipped with tools and strategies to help you build a healthier relationship with your body image.

With the right support, you don’t have to break up with Love Island USA this summer. You can absolutely keep up with all the villa drama while also working on rebuilding your confidence and protecting your mental health. It’s not about choosing between entertainment and self-care: it’s about finding that sweet spot where you can enjoy both.

Ready to take that first step? Find the right therapist for you, today!

 

Sources:

Multidisciplinary Digital Publishing Institute: Body Perceptions and Psychological Well-Being

Reality TV Statistics by Shows, Franchise, Demographics and Popularity

Which American Genres Have the Highest Global Demand?

Popularity of Reality TV as Online Video Content Genre in the U.S. 2019-2023 as of June 2024, by Quarter

Mental Health Foundation Raises Fears About Impact of Reality TV on Young Viewers

The Issue of Diverse Body Representation on Reality TV Goes Way Beyond Love Island

Reality TV Fuels Body Anxiety in Young People, Survey Says

 

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